The Reason

People nowadays for me, they only see the bad in others and tries to find their weakness. Its good to see people the bad side, weakness or the true person, but it turns wrong when they intend to use this as an excuse not to be friends with them, some may use this to tell others what they think of that person, some may want to destroy their life style as jealousy overcome them. My close friend once ask me, why i choose him as a friend even when he tells me he back stabs and his not a good person. The truth is, I didn't know how to answer him that time, until now... if i were to choose a friend, i can over look the bad point in that person and only appreciate the good point. Accepting the bad point of a person is something that some people can't do in this kind of era. I manage to overcome this point, the truth is when other comment or talk bad about other in the front, i just join them and follow that group of people who comment bad about them, i admit that its really a bad thing to do, but behind those who comment bad things about others, in my heart i don't look people that way, some people may be annoying, some may be jealous, talks bad about others, creating rumor, stubborn, always wants to "win", never could accept others, but deep down inside we are all the same, we are all human and we are all ordinary. Nobody perfect, nobody is better than others. For me I accept everyone to be my friend, but, close friends~. For me close friends are people who i can accept their every bad point and still stick to him or her. Even when he did something really wrong, i still manage to forgive him or her. Just don't take this opportunity to take a chance to fool me, i only can forgive close friends three times. I don't change close friends, its because i am happy with just how they are, some may find my happiness annoying, but look at this point of view, why am I always happy? I always want a happy day, never sad, I love to laugh, most of all I love spending time with my closes friends, they are the people who are there when you feel down and always there to help you if you needed help, they are the people who care for you no matter who you are, they accept you no matter what type of person you are. That what close friends are to me. Don't you feel happy when you spend time with close friend who are there? to do all this things? spend time in class? having yam cha section,have trips, Hang out? Anyway, the reason why I am always optimistic, i manage to do things that others can do, some people they say they know me, but the truth do they really know? You may know all the bad things about me, but you don't really know who i really am, the good point in me, and what i really can do. Some people never do try to get to know the person, all they do is first look, to see whether they are ugly, or have face problem, this people you should be a shame of yourself, first look does not really judge who they are, its actually bullshit sometimes. Get to know the people for yourself and get to know them really well. Lastly saying, did you know there are few people who are really good actually. Just really open your eyes, ears and get to know them by yourself~! don't judge people cause you don't like them.


PS: anyone can be my close friend, just find time to let me know you~